relationships

What to talk about with a boyfriend

Sometimes it feels like everything's been said. In truth there are always topics that bring you closer — all it takes is a little curiosity.

Dreams and plans

Ask what he dreams of for the next year and for 'someday'. Shared dreams are great glue for a couple.

Memories and stories

Childhood, funny moments, first impressions — these stories show a person's warm side.

Real little check-ins

Ask not as a formality but with interest. Sometimes the best talk starts with a sincere 'tell me how you are'.

If you want to go further, on luminamur you can read about five questions that bring you closer.

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