relationships

Questions to ask a partner

Good questions aren't a test but an invitation to closeness. Ask them with curiosity, not a trap.

About values

'What matters to you in a family?', 'What does support mean to you?' — these reveal how well you match.

About feelings

'When do you feel loved?' — a simple question that changes a lot between you.

About the future

Talk about plans honestly and without pressure: dreams, children, cities, pace of life. Better to learn early than guess for years.

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